The Whole House Podcast

This podcast covers adoption/foster care, homeschooling, parenting, health and home projects! The Whole House- Health, Home and family all in one place! We’re glad you’re here! We compare our team to the rooms in a house, each has a different purpose and our gals each have different giftings. With that our ‘rooms’ make up a Whole House.

Grab a cup of coffee and join our overly-caffeinated ladies here for The Whole House Podcast!


Episode 16: Kathleen sits down with Ciarra McCartney!

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(If this name sounds familiar, that’s because it is! You can find an interview with her mom, Molly, on Episode 12!)

Ciarra McCartney is a teenager and budding author who was adopted through the foster care system. She shares some of her realities of growing up in a broken home, placements in foster homes, and finally being adopted.

We hope you enjoy Ciarra’s wisdom, self-awareness, and eloquence beyond her sixteen years. As always, thank you for joining us here for The Whole House podcast!

Episode 15: Moms Being Their Own Advocate

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Amerey, Carly, and Kathleen talk about some of the ups and downs and dealings of being a young mom.

We think every mother will encounter moments where they will have to speak up for themselves or else be misunderstood/taken advantage of/manipulated. We share some (spoiler alert: truthful and raw) stories of times when we have had to advocate for ourselves or our babies, with family members, medical professionals, or strangers. We’ve been there, and we want to encourage you in those possibly tough situations.

So grab a cup of coffee! Wash those dishes! Walk that trail! And thank you so much for joining us here at The Whole House!

You can always find more about us on our website

We are also on Facebook as The Whole House and on Instagram as @the_whole_house

Episode 14- Intro Reboot! Meet Ashley and Jessica!

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A double-feature!! Get to know a little about our two new team members, Ashley and Jessica! In these back-to-back episodes you get to hear from our two new ladies about who they are, what they care about, and the passions they will be bringing to The Whole House! We SO look forward to sharing more from Ashley and Jessica, as well as the rest of The Whole House team!

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You can find Jessica here.

Episode 13- Learning to Love Littles Well

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Amerey and Kathleen talk about learning how to understand and work well with toddlers, little kids, and kids with lower emotional ages. Do you always know how to express your feelings? We, as adults, can’t always answer yes, so how can we expect it out of our littles?? We aren’t preaching from perfection, we just want to offer tips to helping little kids with big emotions regulate and adjust their behaviors appropriately.

Hug a Social Worker! With Molly McCartney

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Episode 12: Kathleen has a short and sweet discussion with Molly McCartney, who holds a Master’s Degree in Social Work and is also a Certified Trauma Therapist and Adoption Therapist.

March is National Professional Social Work Month, and we want to celebrate by sharing a little bit of Molly’s journey through working with horses, becoming a social worker, and then adopting. We discuss Molly’s unique and super cute private practice, The Beacon Barn (find more info at as well as the importance of trauma-informed therapy in adoption.

Also, keep an eye out for an upcoming episode where we speak with Molly’s daughter Ciarra! You won’t want to miss it!

And please follow our facebook page, The Whole House, and on instagram @the_whole_house

Thank you so much for joining us!

Episode 11- If You Give a Mom a Hammer

Amerey, Carly, Kathleen, and Lori discuss how they do hobbies and projects as moms! We share helpful tips to help you keep doing hobbies you love after having kids, and to help you find new things to do to keep your creative juices flowing as a mom! Whether you have a newborn or teenagers, we know you need an outlet from meeting everyone else’s needs and we want to encourage you find one! As always, we thank you so much for listening! Please be sure to subscribe to stay up-to-date on our podcasts!

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Episode 10 – The Superpowers of Motherhood

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Moms, did you know you have superpowers? Maybe you don’t feel like it today. We understand. Here’s some good news. You do have superpowers.
One of them is the power of your powers is influence.
Influence is “the capacity or power of persons or things to be a compelling force on or produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc., of others,” according to

Episode 9- The Habit of Celebration

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The Habit of Celebration!

We talk about making celebrations habitual, be it Christmases, birthdays, or just doing laundry!

We discuss catering celebrations to fit your families, your circumstances, and your budget! We offer solidarity and encouragement to make your days full of meaningful celebration!

Episode 8-  Six Risk Factors

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On The Whole House Podcast Episode 8, Lori and I talk about a tough subject. The Six Risk Factors that create a child from a hard place. We don’t like to think that children come to us with trauma in their history. We adoptive/foster parents wish it weren’t true. When we pretend the past trauma doesn’t exist and see the behaviors glaring at us every day, we have to put those somewhere in our scope. In our file cabinets in the brain. We file them under  blame ourselves for the way that they are behaving. Sometimes others do. Or we can learn and grow. We can learn what trauma does to the brain. What it does and how to help the kiddos make progress.


Episode 7 – Moms, You are the Boss and the Employee

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Episode 7: Kathleen and Amerey discuss home administration and how usually when you’re a mom, you end up being at the top and the bottom of the totem pole. Seriously, we do it all! We’re jacks of all trades! But sometimes it is too much! We encourage you to set realistic goals and expectations and give a glimpse into a healthy way to be the boss and the employee of your home! Be sure to subscribe to stay up-to-date on our podcasts! You can also find more about us on our website: And please follow our Facebook page, The Whole House, and on Instagram @the_whole_house Thank you so much for joining us!

Episode 6 – Mothering When There Are Obstacles

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Episode 5 -Nurturing Your Children when it Doesn’t Come Naturally

We recorded this episode after one of our live coffee days and this was the topic!

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Myth- You will always be pleasant and sweet and feel that way!

Carly- Sometimes we don’t want to take care of someone before ourselves.

We don’t realize until we have kids how selfish we are until we have kids.

Kathleen- We have an ideal of serving others as long it is the parameters we set. Example -serving a few hours out an outreach.

If you want learn how to be unselfish, have children.

Amerey-Media- Mom is dressed and ready when kids wake up. Make up one.

Three year old wakes up before everyone. It’s hard to get up and be purposeful. I want to be the selfish mom.

Carly- Hubby has fallen into the trap of turning TV on. It takes some retraining.

Kathleen-Myth- People assume that if you stay at home, your home is organized. YOu are joyful. You have makeup on.

The idea that we don’t get frustrated in our jobs is a myth.

Other women who have careers get frustrated in their jobs.

Carly- Why do we think we shouldn’t get frustrated in our jobs?

Amerey- We think we shouldn’t get frustrated in the home with our kids. Or out in public. We begin to think there is something wrong with our kids

CArly- We share the best parts of our day on social media. So, we compare our normal day with the best parts of someone else’s day.

Kathleen- Five  minutes of everything going right. The kids are behaving. We have a cup of coffee and we take a photo. We post it.

Amerey- While we are posting it, the kids have a break down

Carly- Here’s the thing. I only follow people who take the good picture and post the bad picture too.

Amerey- I followed DIY people and thought I had to clean my house and have it perfect first.

Carly- How do you help yourself be the best person you can be?

I didn’t take time for myself for a year and a half. Take time for yourself.

Watercolors. Sand some wood.

Amerey- The thing to remember – this doesn’t mean time to zone. This means body and soul refreshing. Don’t just zone and forget about things.

You need to come back filling like a better person. Refresh your mind.

Read a book that speaks to you.  Paint. Knit. Focus on yourself mentally.

Carly- Sometimes the best thing is to let the dishes go.

Kathleen- She is right. Refurbishing something is de-stressing for me. The Bible speaks of renewing our minds. When act like our creative self, like God designed us to be, we are renewing our minds.

The liturgy of the Ordinary

Find Christ in the ritualistic things you do every day.

A Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp

Intentionally look for God in folding laundry

Kathleen- God takes the mundane and turns it into something glorious

We have to be intentional. We can become lazy spiritually just as much as we do physically. We must be intentional about looking for Christ.

Amerey- Something else you can do- after you have set aside time for yourself. Set aside time to spend time with your child.  We forget our child needs time with us. Sit on the floor and read every book they bring to you.

Kathleen- God usually requires us to do the opposite of what we want. After a move to a new town, I experienced circumstantial depression.

Hug each child every day. Do something fun with each child every day.

Amerey-We became close that year. Family game nights every night. If you don’t have a year like that, you need to set aside time when your focus is on your child.

Carly- Would you like to look back twenty years later and try to find good moments or would you rather count them along the way.

Kathleen- The lesson from the hard year- God is going to require you to intentionally nurture your children, even in your deepest, darkest, hour.

Carly- God calls us to holy work.

Closing Remarks


To Nurture your child you must Nurture yourself.

Set aside time to nurture your child. Intentionally.

Episode 4- Parenting Against The Grain

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Have you ever wondered why we are stay-at-home moms? Or maybe what we do all day? The Whole House ladies discuss their lives and choices as stay-at-home moms and share why they consider themselves to be parenting counter-culturally, or “parenting against the grain.” Find more about us and our ongoing caffeine-fueled lives at, on Instagram @the_whole_house, or on Facebook at The Whole House!

Episode 3- The Guire Adoption Story

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Episode 3: The Whole House ladies give you some insider info and unique perspectives on the adoption of 4 Guire children from Poland. You can find Kathleen’s book, A Positive Adoption Story: The Door from Theology to Reality here (soon-to-be re-released with a new subtitle, cover, and study guide!) Grab a cup of coffee and laugh with us! Even cry with us! We love this story of adoption and we hope you will too!

Link to Episode 3 here!

iTunes link- Episode 2 National Trafficking Day


Podcast Notes for Human Trafficking Episode 2


Sex Trafficking

National Human Trafficking Awareness Day -January 11th

  • Definition of Human Trafficking-the action or practice of illegally transporting people from one country or area to another, typically for the purposes of forced labour or commercial sexual exploitation.
  • When we each became aware of Human Trafficking

Carly, Kathleen, Lori, Amerey

Defining Home by Kathleen (Sex Trafficking)

  • Sex Trafficking targets the hidden and the voiceless
  • Myths About Human Trafficking:
  • Human Trafficking does not occur in the United States. It only occurs in other countries.
  • Human trafficking victims are only foreign born individuals and those who are poor.

“Success lies in the effort, not the attainment.”- Gandhi

What can you do?

Different Types of Slavery

  • Prostitution too normalized in the media and on TV
  • Hidden Girl by Shyima Hall
  • Housekeeper and Slaves (Labor Trafficking)
  • Nevada is the only state in the US where prostitution is legal


Seek out someone to have a conversation with and live counter culturally.

Grab your copy of Defining Home and read it with your teen!


Join The Whole House Team by supporting us on Patreon.

iTunes link: The Whole House Podcast Episode 1: Introductions!

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The Whole House Podcast Episode 1: Introductions! Show Notes:

Meet The Whole House Team


Each member of The Whole House Team takes a turn introducing themselves.


Kathleen Guire

The Whole House Administrator

Author: Positive Adoption: A Memoir, Five Things A Tiny Handbook for Adoptive/Foster Families, 25 Days of Thriving Through Christmas An Advent Devotional for Adoptive and Foster Parents,  

Defining Home

 Adoptive Mom

Encourage. Equip and Educate other Adoptive/foster parents

ETC Parent Trainer


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Amerey Campbell

Marketing Director

Kathleen’s daughter

Mother of three girls

From a family of seven children

Second oldest

Passion- Helping Mothers find their purpose. Teaching other Moms how to be Moms.

“I do it” projects.


Carly Jones

Host of Podcast, Revision Team, Book cover design

Mother of Judah

An accidental stay at home Mom

Eradicating Human Trafficking

Do it yourself projects


Lori Shaffer

Social Media Director

3 children

Heart for abused women, teen moms, women and children who have been abused

Moms of kids with special needs

Youngest son has SPD

Follow us on Social media!

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Kathleen Guire  

Amerey Campbell

Carly Jones

Lori Shaffer

The Whole House

The Whole House Book Discussion









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